How Dare I be Single you know what I mean?…

Babes! or potatoes! which ever one you guys prefer… Hello, welcome back to another rant- I mean post. So as I was just living my life, the annoying thought came to my mind… “Why am I still single?”. Now, as a single babe, this thought comes to my mind quite often ( sad I know). It doesn’t help when I’m CONSTANTLY hearing ” do you have a boyfriend?” “why don’t you have a boyfriend?” “do you like being single?” blah blah blah. It gets pretty old if I’m being quite honest (LOL), it also doesn’t help that almost ALL of my friends are in a relationship… I’m not being dramatic ( at least not this time lol). Now, now I once again probably sound bitter and sad at the fact that I’m not in a relationship and to be very honest… sometimes I am sad, never bitter though, being bitter causes wrinkles. Not to sound full of myself but I always thought ” well I’m pretty… why won’t a guy approach me or want to date me?”. Eh, this post is getting so personally(LOL). Let me clarify, I’ve talked to plenty of guys( I’m not a hoe I swear lol) but I’ve never been in a committed, I’m your girlfriend, you’re my boyfriend kind of relationship. Mines have been like… We meet, we’re vibing( I’m falling in Love), I start to like you( I actually love you), I start to plan our wedding and what we’re gonna name our kids, then we stop talking.

Okay, I’m not that desperate/crazy, but more or less that’s how most of my encounters with guys go, and it’s really annoying! Like my gosh guys, stop being rude and ghosting us girls. I’m kidding, I’m kidding it isn’t always the guys’ fault. Ladies, it’s us too( I know it’s hard to believe because we’re perfect). Sometimes the way we act and the things we do can sabotage a relationship before it even starts( trust me, I’ve been there). Anyway, so now I’m in the weird place in my life where I’m 24 (I’m an adult hehe!) and everyone around me is falling in love, getting married and having babies( I can wait for that one tbh). You guys are probably like “Tati we get it, you’re single but what does this have to do with anything?”. Well my impatient potatoes, some girls have a hard time with being single. It’s really strange but most women I feel are ashamed to admit that they desire to be in a relationship, scared people will see them as being desperate or “thirsty”. In the beginning, I was like that, when people would question me about being in a relationship my response was always ” Pssh, what? me in a relationship? no way, no, nope, I’m fine being single”. When in reality I was sitting in my room watching rom-coms and wishing I had a boyfriend(LOL). Okay, now I sound thirsty- but anyway I made the executive decision to dip my toes in the wonderful world of dating. I could lie to you and say I’m not scared or nervous but..my God I’m terrified. I know I’m not the only one who is scared to “jump back on the horse” or “step into the dating world”, I know many of my single babes feel the same. Which is why we will be going through this together… I didn’t even ask if you wanted to be involved in this( but I know you do because you’re my cute potatoes). Soooo let the dating disaster- I mean journey begin. This feels incomplete I know, but I will be writing a few different posts about my (sad) dating life and ANY other dating/relationship topics you guys want me to talk about, just comment down below or even send me a DM on Instagram. xoxo cute potatoes.